Low libido can show up at any time. But the more I talk with couples going through hormonal changes, the more I see how unhelpful some of the common advice can be: "Just use more lube." "It's all in your head." When your hormones are all over the place and you feel like a stranger in your own body, those one-liners don’t cut it. You need real insight into what’s happening, plus proven ideas for what you can actually do about it. That’s what today’s article covers. Because your desire matters,...
22 days ago • 3 min read
Summer officially starts tomorrow, and you know what that means: Heat waves. Vacations. Packed schedules. Wherever you are, the temps are beginning to rise. And let's be honest... When you're both melting, sex can be the last thing on your mind. The great thing about summer is that it can force you to slow down and find new ways to connect (without overheating). We've discovered 11 surprisingly effective ways to cool down together that will actually bring you closer than ever. 👉 Click here to...
29 days ago • 3 min read
Someone in the ONE Family recently messaged us with a question that I know SO many of you have wondered about... They wanted to talk to their spouse about sex toys but didn't know where to start. Even just saying the words out loud felt awkward... Sound familiar? Listen, we've been there too. Sex toys have enhanced our sexual intimacy in so many ways (more fun, creativity, and excitement just to name a few!). But getting to that place of comfortability takes time. And yes, you'll probably...
about 1 month ago • 2 min read
Divorce. There was a point in our marriage where it was a very real possibility. Even now, I (Alisa) can vividly recall the emotions we felt during those valley seasons... Deep hurt, broken trust, shattered connection. We had the same dysfunctional arguments on repeat. Busy schedules and little kids became our go-to excuse for a stale bedroom. In my last 13+ years as a marriage coach, I've seen so many of the same warning signs come up. There are clear signals when divorce is approaching, and...
about 2 months ago • 2 min read
The older we get, the more we realize that “normal” doesn’t mean optimal. It’s “normal” for couples to… 💔 Feel disconnected 🏠 Drift into roommate mode 💬 Or even split up altogether But extraordinary couples don't settle for "normal" in their marriage. And the same goes for your health. Labs might come back “normal,” but if you're dealing with irritability, fatigue, or low libido, it is affecting your relationship. You don’t have to settle. You deserve to feel amazing in your body and in your...
2 months ago • 3 min read
When vaginal dryness during menopause makes sex painful, it creates a ripple effect through your entire marriage. Both of you feel it. Wives who deal with it experience the physical pain. And husbands may feel the emotional rejection. But we believe this common challenge doesn't have to define your sex life. Today's article will give you practical steps to reclaim the emotional and sexual connection that makes your marriage extraordinary. Click here to read >> Love you guys,Tony & Alisa...
3 months ago • 2 min read
I (Alisa) can’t tell you how many nights I lie awake at 3 AM with my mind racing, drenched in sweat, staring at the ceiling. And then there’s Tony, sound asleep next to me. I feel that flash of frustration... Why doesn’t he have to deal with this? Except he does. Our bed turns into a sauna overnight, and as I toss and turn trying to get comfortable, it usually wakes him up too. So when morning comes, we're both exhausted (and probably not our best selves). This kind of sleep disruption can...
3 months ago • 3 min read
In the chaos of everyday life, sometimes the simplest things make the biggest difference in your marriage. In today's article, we're sharing why those quick pecks goodbye aren't enough—and how intentional kissing can actually transform your relationship! 💋 We've included the infamous 6-second kiss technique, plus a few other simple practices that take just minutes but delivers big results. No complicated strategies, just practical tips you can start using tonight! 👉 Click here to read now...
4 months ago • 2 min read
As I (Alisa) have worked with thousands of couples over the years, I've noticed that most wives feel like they have to "push through" the menopause season. The truth is that a woman will spend around 1/3 of her life in peri- or post-menopause. It shouldn't be miserable. And it doesn't have to be. In today's article, I'm sharing three specific habits that are game-changers for women who want to embrace the beauty that this season of life can bring. 👉 Click here to read now Love you guys,Tony &...
4 months ago • 3 min read