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Hey we're Tony & Alisa DiLorenzo

We are the co-authors of the Amazon best seller, The 6 Pillars of Intimacy® and 7 Days of Sex Challenge book. We believe that the healthy combination of sex, love, and commitment is more than the foundation of a strong marriage… it’s the glue that will keep a marriage together. We write, podcast, and coach couples around the world. We have been married since 1996 and have a son and a daughter. We live in Naples, FL

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20 Gift Ideas Your Wife Will Love 😍

Husbands... Christmas is coming. We know it can be tricky to find the perfect gift for your wife, especially if she's dealing with hormone shifts and symptoms caused by perimenopause. If you're looking for gifts that can help with that, we have good news! We've rounded up the top gifts that wives in the ONE Family have recommended to help your wife feel comforted, cherished, and confident throughout this stage of life. Check out all 20 menopause gift ideas here! Love you guys, Tony & Alisa...

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Best of the Month Check out the top content from this month, including today's NEW article 👇 NEW: Honey Do or Honey Don’t? Discover the pros and cons of a "Honey Do List"—and whether it's right for your marriage. Read article Episode 828 Hot flashes and cold truths! Here's why you need to talk about menopause... Listen now The 6 Pillars at Sea Our Last-Ever Marriage Getaway Register Now Common Date Mistakes to Avoid Bad manners and boring conversations? Yikes. Read article Spice Things Up A...

When you've been married for a while, two things tend to happen... #1 - Dates become less frequent than in your early relationship days. And if you do manage to get a date on the calendar... #2 - Bad habits can quickly sour the evening. You and your spouse deserve fun dates to reconnect! So don't let unconscious behavior ruin your time together. Check out today's article for 5 common mistakes to avoid on your next date Love you guys, Tony & Alisa New Article Imagine this: You’re finally...

Want better sex? It might be time to change your perspective... literally! For the last several years, sex furniture has been a tool in our marriage toolbox. 🛠️ It's an exciting and fun way to enhance our sexual intimacy and switch things up from time to time. If you're not sure how to bring up this conversation with your spouse (or find the right style of sex furniture for you), you'll want to check out today's article. Love you guys, Tony & Alisa New Article Throughout your marriage, the...

In the early years of our marriage, we didn't really discuss faith, religion, or spirituality. It was a non-factor in our marriage until late 2000 when Tony hiked the Pacific Crest Trail. While he was hiking, we both had separate, powerful experiences that led us to explore what spiritual intimacy looked like for us as a couple. Maybe you can relate to spiritual intimacy feeling like a non-starter in your marriage too... Or maybe your faith is already a strong foundation to your marriage......

There are two phrases we hear a lot when it comes to physical intimacy: "I just wish my spouse would touch me." And... "I'm just not a touchy feely person." And usually those two people are married to each other! So to help bridge the gap between the touchy-feely spouse and the non-touchy-feely spouse... We're sharing 17 creative (and somewhat out-of-the-box) ways to strengthen physical intimacy in your marriage. Love you guys, Tony & Alisa New Article “I’m just not a touchy feely person.”...

So, you're stuck in a boring ‘ol sex ditch? 🚧 We've been there a time or two! In today's article, we're sharing three simple tips to help you escape the rut and get back to having FUN in the bedroom. If you've been feeling this way for a while and haven't talked about it with your spouse, this is your sign. ✨ Don't waste any more time with a lackluster sex life! Love you guys, Tony & Alisa New Article No one ever thinks they’ll experience sexual boredom in their marriage. And yet, that is...

22 WAYS TO CHERISH YOUR WIFE ON NATIONAL WIFE DAY

Husbands, mark your calendar for this Sunday. It's National Wife Day 🥳 We know—there are lots of relationship holidays throughout the year, and you probably can't celebrate them all. But on our quest to have extraordinary marriages, it's helpful to have a few special days a year where we can love on our spouse a little extra. 🥰 To help you out, we're sharing 22 ideas to help you cherish and appreciate your wife for National Wife Day. Love you guys, Tony & Alisa New Article Each year, on the...

"How do I romance my husband?" I (Alisa) have coached countless women who struggle to answer this question. Romance plays a huge role in your entire marriage, including sexual intimacy, so knowing the answer is important! But if your husband doesn't know how he likes to be romanced (or he's hesitant to tell you), then you might have no idea where to begin. Don't worry. 😉 In today's article, I'm spilling some of the best-kept romance secrets that husbands have shared with us about what they...

Best of the Month Check out the top content from this month, including today's NEW article 👇 Mark your calendar! From sweet to silly, these relationship holidays give you a reason to celebrate. Read article Episode 820 This one phrase can zap the joy and excitement out of getting sexually intimate... Listen now Überlube High-end luxury, silky lubricant Shop Now What is Happening With My Body? No one told me what to expect with perimenopause... Read article Episode 821 Protect your marriage...